The Control Enthusiast

The title of this post is the last line of an article I found in The Independent Online, written by photographer Ben Westwood and in reference to a law being brought in, under the Criminal Justice and Immigration Act in Britain. I find some of the thoughts & arguments a bit simplistic in parts, but truthful enough in sentiment. Click on the excerpt below for the full article.

“Bondage is a game that experiments with control. Dominance deals with having everything under your own direction while you do all the work. Submission deals with having no responsibilities at all you just lie back and submit. These are both good things to know in life generally. You learn to take full responsibility when you act, and you learn when and how to let someone else take the lead (sometimes literally) when they have something to show, or know better, or are simply willing to do the work. Similarly, the dressing-up fetish can be about sophistication and about the knowledge of one’s own sexual body. Where is the crime in that?”

Tags: Press, Rights, theorosexual by control
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